Dear Choosing Girl,

We tend to find exactly what we are seeking, and exactly what we are expecting…in some way or another. This is why it is so important to seek for beauty and truth, and to expect the best of people and situations.

What happens when you do your best and expect for the best…when you look for goodness and when you seek for beauty and life surprises you with something that is not so fabulous? What happens when clouds cover the sunshine and walls seem to be around everything?

Aqua with red flowers - choose happy


This is where it gets tricky…and this is where the magic happens too. You can choose to see your problems as potential teachers…..see your difficulties as stepping stones to your most fabulous life. See your trials as opportunities to become even better at what you are already good at, and to learn things you never could have learned otherwise. See your place in painful situations as perhaps the ONE person who can bring the light into a dark situation.

There is good everywhere you look…..if you decide to look at the good instead of the yuck. True…there is yuck everywhere too……so it’s more important than ever to step right over it, look up into the light…and decide RIGHT THIS SECOND that you are going to be a force for goodness, light, happiness, laughter, optimism, funky dancing, loud singing and creative fun solutions to every dilemma…..because THAT is who you are.

Thanks for being that incredible force, lovely lady……..the world would not be nearly as beautiful without you.

You are so very loved.