Dear Clever Girl,

Brave Girls have to pick their battles…they just do.

Sometimes we have to choose whether we want to be right or whether we want to be happy.  Sometimes we have to keep our opinions, issues, grievances and complaints to ourselves in order to love and respect others who are important to us.

It doesn’t make you weak to bite your tongue when the conversation gets heated.  Live your truth, and let others live theirs…making a choice to show love and patience instead of proving ourselves right when the issue really doesn’t matter more than the person and the relationship does…know what I mean?  Of course you do…you are brilliant!

Choose your battles wisely.  People we love are always more important than just about everything else.