Dear Brave Girl,
We always have at least 2 choices in each moment…and these are 2 of the most important choices we will ever make, even if 2 is a tiny number.
We can always choose to LOOK FOR WHAT IS RIGHT…or we can choose to look for WHAT IS WRONG. Can you see what a marvelous and compelling difference there is in these 2 perspectives? One of them builds up relationships, brings hope and creates new ideas and joy. The other tears down confidence, feeds fear, keeps us stuck and makes us feel miserable.
Try it, dear friend. Just try it, especially if you feel stuck in a situation or relationship that feels all wrong. Just look for something that is right inside of it. There are ALWAYS gifts to be found in everything, even if those gifts are simply the lessons that we learn from difficult situations and people.
And one of the most beautiful and light-filled things you can do when you are faced with a difficult human being, is to go to the ends of the earth to find something beautiful and true and right about that person, and then do everything you can to SHOW that person what is right about them, instead of reminding them of what is “wrong”. This experience will change both of your lives.
Miracles truly can happen when we focus on what is right and do our best to just learn from what is wrong.
You can do it. You are so amazing. And you are so loved.